Recently someone requested to be friends on Facebook.
We chatted via messenger, and started talking about a relationship.
I’m not that keen.
I told her I’m Transgender, she is alledgedly Lesbian, living on the other side of the country.
She then wanted to meet in person.
I don’t meet anyone in person until we have chatted via video a few times.
She got nasty with me because I suggested it and requested I respect her privacy, yet expected me to pay for a flight and accommodation to meet her.
Sorry, but Safety First.
There’s no way I’m doing what she wants until we are both comfortable.
I feel this person is a scammer and is upto no good, because a genuine person would video chat, especially given these current times.
I will say this again.
Always Video Chat With Someone Before Making Any Costly Moves.