Who gets upset & angry when others put you down for things not in your control?
I believe that we are all equal, & should be free to live our lives, our way.
As long as it is legal, & you are not hurting anyone else, then everyone else should butt out.
Life is way too short.
As an older Trans Person, I’ve seen, & been subjected to:
Trauma, Tragedy, Emotional & Physical Abuse.
I’ve also been bullied & tormented because I was, & still am seen, as an easy target.
Karma can be cruel.