Cancer Sux.

Wilma Fay Jensen 18/09/1939- 30/07/1991.

As I write this, I’m crying thinking about my mum.

30 years ago today, I lost her to Bowel Cancer.

Because of my sister, I feel mum died earlier than she should have.

During mums time in hospital, in Sydney, I was unable to visit.

As my parents owned a Mixed Business in North West NSW.

When mum was released, she spent much of her time in our upstairs flat.

It was hard watching her go through this as she had previously been an active person.

I had no one to support me.

As I was male, was not allowed to show my emotions, and bottled them up.

My last conversation with mum was hours before she died.

Driving back, I had to stop and let loose my emotions, because I knew it was the last time I would see her alive.

Dad never knew, I’m aware.

My grandmother paid for the funeral, as such, mum is buried near her father.

Please, if anyone has any symptons, get checked out immediately.

Life is too short to allow these awful diseases to take control of us.

Getting checked out early and having regular tests, hopefully can prolong your life.

Pic is last taken with all 3 of us, at my 21st, in 1986, yes that is my ugle mug in the middle


Parents Suck.

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Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesn’t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, that’s what makes us all Humans.

I’ve been lied to many times, mainly by my father.

Many parents will try to control and manipulate their offspring all their lives.

My father did until he died, I was 46.

Honestly, once someone reaches 16, they should be treated like a

Young Adult,


Able to make their own decisions, whether good or bad.

I get so annoyed when parents guilt their offspring into doing what they want.

Parents can be toxic people at times.

I grew up in times, where men ruled.

1970, when I knew I was a G U R L, I didn’t feel comfortable or even safe enough to admit to my parents.

Our parents should allow us to explore and see what is out there, without being in fear of being rejected.

The only time, I believe Parents can and should interfere in their Offspring’s lives, is when any criminal activity is involved.

Offspring should be able to choose their friends, but:

Parents should insist on meeting them, either via video chat,



As someone who has been hurt verbally in the past, I always provide written agreements, & copies of my photo identification too.

To any parents reading this:

Please listen to your offspring and allow them to explore their lives, & if they show interest in something

Non-Traditional, please accept that.

Children know at a young age, who they are, this includes their gender identity and sexual orientation too.

Candle Making Equipment

G’day Amazing Winners.

Below is some of the equipment needed to make candles:

Business Partnership Fees will be used to purchase these items.

Wax Melter/Warmer
Soy Wax Flakes
Measuring Jugs
Candle Holders
Wick Holders
Plant Based Fragrances
Plant Based Colours

Just to name a few items.

My ideal Start-Up costs $1,250,000 AUD, this includes my wages + 20% super, for 12 months.

ADVICE TIME: Safety First.

With the advent of Internet, many new friendships are made, however,

There is also the higher risk of personal safety.

Who remembers being taught:


In school.

I do.

Anyone who meets someone online, please heed this warning.

Please always ensure you video chat, prior to meeting f2f.

1st meetings should be in Public, with CCTV prevalent and Support Persons around you too.

Genuine people will provide a Written, Signed, Legal Document.

Also: Their licence, Recent (Under 12 months) Police Check and Working With Children Check Card.

I never meet anyone in private the 1st few times.

I also provide details of meetings to a trusted friend, with the approx maximum time of contacting them, and local Law Enforcement too, just in case.

I include contact details of the person I’m meeting.

In 2006, I travelled to Melbourne to meet an online friend, who offered their bed for me to share.

I had no address information or an escape plan. I only had the suburb.

I gave this persons name, number and suburb to a trusted friend, with an approx time I would contact them.

Thankfully it all worked out fine.

This advice also applies to any business dealings.

When I worked for ATO, as a Call Centre Agent, a big part of my day, was filling in scam watch forms.

Scammers will try anything to scam money.

I know the signs now.

Please take note of my advice, because it could save your life, and finances too.


Always do research about any person or business you deal with.

Currently my business address is my residential address.




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Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesn’t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, that’s what makes us all Humans.

Do you want the 40/40/40 Existence?




From a young age, we are Brainwashed in to believing, do well in school, maybe get a higher education, choose a career path, and find a J. O. B.

We are not encouraged to seek Opportunities, which can give us a better Life/Work Balance.

Then spend the next 40+ years working hard for less $$$$$$$ than you are worth.


Helping others get rich from YOUR HARD WORK.

Heaven forbid if you get sick and need time off.

Most Employers will be tolerant for a while but will then seek to replace you.

Oh Yeah: Every Employee Is Replacrable.

Most Business Owners/Employers only have LOYALTY to themselves, not Employees.

Granted, times are changing and some Employers are starting to be more flexible with Employees.

However, wages are still a major issue.

Have any of you ever thought about a 2nd income without really working for it.

Please remember, you might be able to claim expenses as a Tax Deduction.

This depends on your Country.

FYI: Pyramid Schemes, are illegal in many, if not all, Countries.

I’m not trying to persuade anyone to give up their regular job.

COVID-19 should be a wakeup call to everyone.

My honest opinion to every person 18+, have multiple sources of incomes.

Australia Only:

If you have, or obtain, an ABN, You might be able to claim most expenses as a Tax Deduction, which may lower your Income Tax payments, but increase your refund.

Affiliate Marketing could be described as “Word Of Mouth Marketing.”

Many companies are turning to everyday winners to spread the word about their products, and as such will reward those winners.

To earn big money, you must pay money.

Some companies charge a monthly fee, others annual, others, Like MCC, will charge a once off joining fee.

As already said, these fees may be Tax Deductible if you are genuine about having a Side Business.

J. O. B.’s are not as safe as they used to be, therefore every human should have Plan B, C, D, E and even F available.

I believe every human has the potential to earn higher amounts of $$$$$$$$$$,




Winners will always succeed.

My suggestion:

Before paying money to a business, always conduct research, Ensure the Following:

Current ABN,

Registered Business,

Written, Formal Agreements Provided,

Owner/s willing to Meet, either in person (Subject to Lockdowns), or via Zoom.

I will tell you a story about a lost investment opportunity:

In the 1980’s I was a courier, and 1 of our clients was a little known business, then.

1 afternoon, I arrived to pick up a package, it wasn’t quite ready.

The Manager, who I knew quite well, invited me into his office for a coffee and chat.

He advised me about the business going to list publicly.

If I invested some money, over time, that investment may grow.

I advised, I would think about it and let him know.

I made the mistake of telling my father, he told me I would make more money investing in the 1 armed bandits (Slot Machines/Pokies).

He refused to let me invest in this business.

I was disappointed by this as I felt it was a wise investment.

I had $1,000 sitting in the bank. Had I invested it, in 1987, today, that investment would be worth more $250,000.

I’m not saying every business opportunity can give an ROI like that, but here’s the good thing, here in Australia, when you buy into a business, and you have an ABN, that cost and all expenses related to that business, may be Tax Deductible. If you lose those funds, again, you might be able to claim as a Tax loss.

Currently MCC is not an established Business, but with YOUR help, we can be.

Please don’t think about your initial cost, think about everyone YOU can help.

Buying in will allow us to employ untrained humans.

But for yourself, here are a few possible benefits:

New Car every few years, Better House (Around 10 years), Overseas Holidays, More $$$$$$ in your Superannuation account, Better Schools for your offspring, and heaps more.

My point of this blog post is to show everyone, yes, you can have a job, but also a 2nd income stream to help out.

Of course, if you enjoy your 40/40/40, then Awesome.

Business Partnerships to MCC are a Once Off Joining Fee of $25 AUD.

Limited to 100,000 Winners Worldwide.

If anyone is interested in knowing more, please contact me.

I offer a free 30 minute No Obligation Zoom call to all genuine Interested Winners.

Finally, Thank You to Pinterest for the Photos used.


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Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesn’t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, that’s what makes us all Humans.

I’d like to begin by acknowledging the Traditional Owners of the land on which we meet today. I would also like to pay my respects to Elders past, present and emerging.

Back Story to me growing up:

My father was a Sexist, Racist, Homophobe who passed his narrow minded views onto me. Or I should say ”Forced” his views.

Because of this, I treated anyone who was not a White Australian Male as inferior people only there to serve me.

Certain people took offence at this, and rightly so. I was strongly disliked by almost every other student in Secondary School.

Their revenge: Hurt me so much, I contemplated Suicide.

Deep Down, I felt sick because I didn’t agree with my father, but he was the boss , therefore, he must be abided by.

I was scared of him so much, I even hid my true self because I knew what would happen:


Instead I did what I was told.

I had 2 best friends in secondary school, 1 was a white boy, the other Mediterranean. My father accepted my white friend, but not my other.

My father eventually found a reason to dislike my white friend, accused him of being gay and trying to turn me. He was not.

Anyway, when I left school and started working, I was able to make friends and be more accepting.

I worked with many different humans, who taught me a lot.

My father objected to me associating with “undesirables”. His words, not mine.

I just saw them as humans.

What my father didn’t know,  I was battling my not only my Gender Identity, but Sexual orientation.

As a result, I compensated by treating women like slaves.

Eventually, I realised, everyone is equal and deserves to be treated as such.

I started doing that and guess what?

I realised I could learn from everyone, no matter their background.

Acceptance to me means:

Accepting every other Amazing Winner, being Supportive, Listening and trying New Foods and Ideas.

To everyone whom I treated badly, because of my upbringing:


I was doing what I was TOLD was the right thing to do,



I will say, since killing my father (He was on Life Support, as NOK, I was given the choice), I have changed my views and started accepting everyone, until they let me down, if they do.

I used to listen to others and their negativity regarding people, which I would believe, however, I no longer base decisions on that.

I think things through before deciding.

I will tell you a story:

January 2015, I posted in a Transgender group on Facebook, seeking a Gender Surgeon. A gurl responded, and we started chatting via messenger.

She advised, I could friend her, which I did, however, I baulked when I saw her age, she was 15, I was 49. I had no physical interest in her, however, knew others would assume the worst in me. I told “Chris” this, but she assured me all was ok. I accepted this and we continued chatting almost daily, until Monday March 30th, 2015, when I was suddenly blocked.

I thought I’d done something wrong and attempted to reconcile. Chris stupidly had her school on her wall. I wrote a detailed and long letter to her, then sent it to her. As expected, no response.

I later found out, my worst suspicions, she had been lied too about me. Despite no evidence, she believes what was said.

Thankfully, I have proof of my innocence.

This event has caused me to go backwards as it hurt me so much, and I thought we were great friends.

Granted I asked very personal questions from Chris, but with permission. I asked them as she was the youngest TransGurl I knew in Australia and her answers were purely for my education.

Anyway, I digress and possibly boring you all now, so:

My point originally of this blog is we should accept every other



Because we can learn from each other.

I certainly have.

Despite my age (56), I have learnt from many other winners:

An Amazing Friend (My BIFF) in Canada, who is 23 and Married to a man my age.

Several Cleaning Customers who are under 30 and super Amazing Winners.

Please: Always give others a

“Fair Go”

Because you never know what a person may offer you and bring value to


Zetland, NSW, Australia

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Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesn’t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, that’s what makes us all Humans.

I stayed at this place in 2013 for around 14 nights.

I had a 1 bedroom which was amazing.

Not sure what floor I was on, but was high up.

The kitchen was great, had a microwave, fridge, stove, utensils.

Bathroom: Bath, Shower, Washing Machine & Dryer.

Lounge area had a tv, dvd player, chairs and table.

Secure Car Parking. I think then, was extra $25 per day.

As it’s 8 years ago, unsure about any deliveries.

Easy drive from Sydney Airport, almost to anywhere.

If I remember correctly, it’s only a short walk to public transport.

This is approx distance from suites to Green Square Station.
Looking towards Sydney CBD.
Southern Cross Drive, looking towards Mascot Airport.
Another Sunrise Pic.
Blue Lines are closest Bus Routes.

Below are the bus routes close by, but I encourage you to do research prior to deciding.

I highly recommend staying here, once restrictions ease and the suites have reopened.

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MCC is and always WILL be an




No matter where you reside, you can benefit from a Business Partnership.

Yes, there is a cost to Buy-In $25 AUD, but within 5 years of being established, we hope to refund that cost.

If any other LGBTIQA businesses interested, we would love to collaborate.

Please contact us.

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Thank You Pinterest.

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Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesn’t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, that’s what makes us all Humans.

Why are so many people fixated on whether someone is physical with another person or not?

Honestly, I have no interest in what people do in their bedrooms.

TBH: I have no interest in anyone physically, despite what others might accuse me of.

Just because someone befriends another person, does not mean they want to be physical with said person.

I strongly despise touching anybody even as a welcoming gesture. I guess it’s my trust issues.

A common misconception about LGBTIQA Humans, is we all want to get physical with every person we meet:
I will debunk that MYTH.


Just because someone is single, doesn’t mean they are looking for anything physical.

Me, I’m not. My Top Priority right now is to establish MCC and possibly undergo


However, due to my age, I’m 56, am doubtful my surgery will ever happen, therefore, I will stay single for the rest of my existence.

Please don’t get me wrong, I have nothing against physical intimacy and/or relationships.

Many of you don’t know, but when I was 6-14, I was molested by an older relative. This caused major trust issues for me and ultimately, my first, AND ONLY, Relationship to end.

Just because someone is single, doesn’t mean they are lonely or in need of a relationship.

If someone says they are not interested, please accept that.

I prefer being friends with others, because I get more satisfaction.

Another thing, just because someone is Transgender, it does not mean they want a physical relationship with anybody from their assigned Gender.

I love this quote:

Affiliate Marketing Explained.

Contrary to belief, AM is not a Pyramid scheme.

In order to succeed, one needs to pay $$$$$$$ to earn extra $$$$$.

Granted, some companies charge a joining or monthly fee, but

We all Affiliate Market everyday.

Here is an example:

You go shopping and see a new product, then you tell your Family, Friends etc.

That is Free Advertising for that product. The company earns more $$$$$.

Did You Receive a Commission from your “Word of Mouth?”


If you were an Affiliate Marketer, and your contacts used your link, you would have received the commissions.

Many companies do not use paid advertising today.

They prefer to give that money to

Everyday Humans.

Don’t forget, as an Affiliate Marketer, everytime you buy the products,


Receive cashback, even your own purchases too.

The good part too, is most expenses relating to your Business, may be Tax Deductible, meaning you may increase your refund.


The above is for Australia.

Applying for an ABN is easy too.


I hope I’ve educated you all.

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