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Cancer Sux.

Wilma Fay Jensen 18/09/1939- 30/07/1991.

As I write this, I’m crying thinking about my mum.

30 years ago today, I lost her to Bowel Cancer.

Because of my sister, I feel mum died earlier than she should have.

During mums time in hospital, in Sydney, I was unable to visit.

As my parents owned a Mixed Business in North West NSW.

When mum was released, she spent much of her time in our upstairs flat.

It was hard watching her go through this as she had previously been an active person.

I had no one to support me.

As I was male, was not allowed to show my emotions, and bottled them up.

My last conversation with mum was hours before she died.

Driving back, I had to stop and let loose my emotions, because I knew it was the last time I would see her alive.

Dad never knew, I’m aware.

My grandmother paid for the funeral, as such, mum is buried near her father.

Please, if anyone has any symptons, get checked out immediately.

Life is too short to allow these awful diseases to take control of us.

Getting checked out early and having regular tests, hopefully can prolong your life.

Pic is last taken with all 3 of us, at my 21st, in 1986, yes that is my ugle mug in the middle

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Funky Friyay ๐Ÿจ๐Ÿฆ˜๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿจ๐Ÿฆ˜๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ’

G’day all. Well the weekend is almost upon us.

I want to wish everyone a Safe, Happy, Enjoyable, Legal Weekend.

Those in relationships, hope you all have a Romantic weekend planned.

I hope we are all observing Social Distancing too, also wearing masks & using hand sanitiser too.

I’m thinking about all of you, Super Amazing Humans.

๐Ÿ•๐Ÿ–๐Ÿฆ˜๐Ÿจ๐Ÿจ๐Ÿฆ„โค๐ŸšŠ๐ŸŽ„๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿจ๐Ÿฆ˜MELISSAโ€™S CABIN PARK PROJECT.

ยฉ Melโ€™s Customised Candles Melbourne, Australia, 2021

Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesnโ€™t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, thatโ€™s what makes us all Humans.

Refunds will be made to each buyer, once we make $10 Million After Tax Profit. All Benefits will remain, if buyers wish.

100,000 Positions Only.

The free nights will be valid for 10 years from the day the park opens, hopefully by end of 2022.

First up, this is subject to change, depending on funds raised, and/or size/location of vacant land.

Do You, or someone you know, Plan a Working Holiday to Melbourne, Australia once the world reopens?

This is a perfect Opportunity, in many ways.

Added Free Bonus: Logoed Coffee Mug provided on Arrival.

In Line with COVID, we will have touchless Hand Sanitiser Stations spread around the park, and desk top ones in each cabin too.

Our main goal is to assist Winners escaping Toxic Environments to find Safe, Secure, Stable Accommodation.

The park will have a mix of accommodation types:

1, 2, 3, & 4 Bedroom.

Each will have 1 parking spot included.

Each cabin will be fully furnished, including a washing machine and dryer, but there will also be a retractable clothes line available at each cabin.

If enough funds raised, maybe a 10 story, 100 Studio Apartments.

In the middle of the property will be a common entertainment area.

Comprising: Games Room, Meeting Room, All Year Round Swimming Pool, Showers and Changing Facilities, Commercial Kitchen. Maybe even a casual Dancing Club type room.

Landscaped gardens with exercise equipment, and a playground.

Hydroponic Herb and Vegetable Garden, for each Resident/Guest to harvest as needed.

There will also be an on site General Store and Melโ€™s Customised Candles Production Studio.

The entire Park will be solar powered which will harvest Rain Water.

Unlimited High Speed Internet too.

Hopefully there will be Pay TV too.

Free Transport to/from the local railway station, hopefully either Lara, Little River, and/or Werribee for Residents/Guests.

This will be extended to Melbourne CBD on occasions.

Transport will be included from/to Avalon Airport.

Possible Rent cost, including all utilities, except Phone:

$200 Per week for a Studio/1 bedroom of 6 months or more + $50 per week for a 2 hour clean, but Residents/Guests can choose to clean their own cabin.

Security will be tight:

Entry via Security Swipe Card, $50 per card deposit, refundable upon vacate.

CCTV will be prevalent around the park and recorded too.

Hopefully this will be a large park, with around 100-400 Residents/Guests at any one time.

We will provide Short and Long Term Accommodation.

If Long Term Residents on Government Benefits, we will Employ them for 16 hours per week.

Draft Terms and Conditions:

1. 4 weeks Security Bond.

2. No Illegal Activity Allowed.

3. If #3 violated, Immediate Eviction without refund of bond or Security Card Deposit. Both will be donated to a Charity.

Further Tโ€™s & Cโ€™s to be revealed later.

100,000 Winners to buy @ $100 AUD each will receive the below benefits:

14 Nights FREE Accommodation,

&

Business Partnership with Melโ€™s Customised Candles.

Plus:

Melissa’s 10 published eBooks,

https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/MelissaSeymour

Her 11th unpublished:

“Megan & Carrie”

And 7 Cleaning Tips Blog Book.

Initial Funds required:

$5-10 Million AUD.

You can help and benefit yourself too.

$5 will be split 5 ways and donated to charity:

Cancer, Transgender Support, Childrenโ€™s Ambulance Service, Sickle Cell, Animal Sanctuary.

Further Information, Please email us at

melscustomisedcandles@gmail.com

Finally, The initial cost may be Tax Deductible (Australia) if you have, or obtain an ABN and wish to make money from MCC.

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๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿฆ„๐Ÿจ๐Ÿฆ˜๐ŸšŠ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ŽWe Are All Human ๐Ÿ’โ˜•๐Ÿซ๐Ÿš‘

Who else is sick of others interferring in People’s lives?

As long as nothing violent or illegal happening, then

We are entitled to

Live

Safe

Happy

Free

Legal

Lives

And be worthy

Tax Paying Citizens,

No matter where we reside and what profession we choose.

Every job is important, just in different ways.

I’m an ex-cleaner, & Professional Driver, amongst others, but:

Treated like dirt.

I have so much:

Respect

&

Admiration

For everyone who has kept the world safe during this Pandemic.

Finally:

Every Winner is Equal & Deserves to be treated Thus.

MELISSAโ€™S TRANSGENDER STORY.

                        ยฉ M A W JENSEN 2021

            Prologue:

This is a summary of my life, which has 2 chapters:

โ€œMy Life Summarised:โ€

โ€œEducational Part.โ€

If you would like to read more detail about what my life was like growing up, please go and purchase:

โ€œMarkโ€™s (Pathetic) Existence.โ€

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Chapter 1: My Life, Summarised.

I was Hatched at 11.30am Friday May 28th, 1965, in a South Western Sydney, Australia, Hospital, and assigned Male. My Assigned Birth Name was Mark Warren Jensen.

My parents were building our new home. The day mum and I were released from hospital, dad took us to the new house. It was not fully finished then. As mum went to get out of the car, her leg slipped on some rubble, causing her to lose her grip on me. I fell on to my head and screamed the suburb down.  This is why Iโ€™m so ugle. Dad immediately took us back to the hospital. After several days observation I was released.

My first few years, was kept isolated from everyone else, the only people I had dealings with were my family. Mumโ€™s lived in North West NSW, whilst most of dadโ€™s were in Sydney and the Illawarra area, and all of those cousins were boys. I was the only one with a Blister, who was hatched in late 1967.

When I was 4, I began my drug habit, Caffeine. I had a sip of my motherโ€™s coffee, I was hooked from then on.

Started school at 4 in 1970, met a great girl, Iโ€™ll call Claire Baire, she changed my life.

Not long after we met, we were at her place one afternoon when she decided to get changed. She knew me so well and could see there was something wrong and asked, โ€œAre You Ok?โ€ I Sobbed, โ€œNo, you are so lucky to wear almost nothing.โ€

She Smiled, โ€œDo You Want To Swap Clothes?โ€ I never answered, just smiled and we did.

Once we exchanged clothes, a light bulb flashed in my head, saying, โ€œYou Are A Gurl

G U R L.โ€ I knew then, but there was a problem, South Western Sydney, Australia, 1970, was a very traditional area, meaning Boys date Girls and Vice Versa. Boys didnโ€™t date Boys or Girls didnโ€™t date Girls, and heaven forbid, Freaks and Weirdos (Thatโ€™s How I felt) Didnโ€™t date anyone.

My dilemma: Even though I had a Groovy Girlfriend who, well for a childโ€™s perspective, we loved each other, not sure exactly how much. I felt that I was a gurl and should be interested in boys.

Claire Baire and I would continue our dress up sessions at her place most days and hated when I had to be a boy again.

I still thought there was something wrong with me, so kept my feelings and weirdness to myself, CB did too.

Age 6, my trauma began. An older male relative started molesting me which continued until age 14. This caused me to become even more withdrawn and have major trust issues. I remembered this late 2018, when I started having nightmares after another TransGurl spread vicious lies about me online.

Age 9, mum and I were watching a documentary about a Transsexual woman, and everything clicked in to place for me. I told mum, who promptly told me to tell my father.

My father was ex-Defence Forces, and very much a Homophobe, although then I didnโ€™t know the word. I knew that if I told him, I would either be killed or disowned. I decided to forgo my happiness to keep the peace.

At age 9 0r 10,  experienced tragedy for the first time. A younger cousin by around 5 months was killed in a car accident. He had been warned many times to wear his seat belt but was too complacent. Him and I had been very close and had he lived, Iโ€™m sure my life would have been different.

My cousin and I looked alike, when his mum was released from hospital, she stayed with us, but refused to look at or even acknowledge me for almost 6 months.

My cousins on my fatherโ€™s side started treating me differently, but at the time, couldnโ€™t figure out why.

One of my male cousins told me to โ€œDo The World A Favour and Drop Dead.โ€ I have only recently realised why he said that, and why I was treated so badly. They blamed me for our cousinโ€™s death. I was in bed asleep when the accident happened.

My world came crashing down when I was 14, in 1979. CB decided to break up with me.

To this day, donโ€™t know why, but wanted to talk to her to sort things out.

I was told, โ€œShe Hates You, Leave her Alone, You Are Better Off Finding A Girl Who Will Love And Obey You.โ€ I believed him because he was my father.

I feel that CB got tired of my elusiveness. I was ashamed and embarrassed about being molested as boys were not the victims. TBH, I donโ€™t blame CB for breaking up with me, even though we had a strong connection, in the end, it wasnโ€™t that strong.

I was ridiculed and bullied still and copped so much flak, not only from boys but girls too.

Age 16, accused of touching the breast of a fellow student, something I still say I didnโ€™t do, and if I did, it was accidental, especially as I was very racist and sexist. This other student was of Mediterranean heritage.

I was punished, but these girls decided that I deserved more and tricked me in to the girls bathroom late one Friday afternoon. Once I was naked, I was knocked out. I woke up hours later, bound, gagged and tied to the cistern of a toilet, still naked. This was winter and in those days there were gates, not doors. I remained there until Monday morning. When I was found, I was hours from death. I was also told that someone had squeezed my genitalia so hard, it was a 98% chance that I was infertile. I never told my parents, nor anyone, until I wrote my True Story.

Met who I thought might be โ€œThe One,โ€ in 1985 and it was fun, although non-sexual, but that ended mid-1986. Again, I was lied to, actually by her, but I found out many years later the truth.

I stayed in male dominated jobs, Factory Hand, Courier, Parcel Delivery, Bus Driver, Blood Delivery Driver, Train Cleaner, but since moving to Melbourne, have done House Cleaning and Call Centre work, and at times a Mystery Shopper/Auditor. I even tried being a WebCam Girl for a while, but it failed, too many free loaders.

Over the years,  have been accused of various things, Thief, Liar, Prostitute, Drug User, Abuser, and the lies spread by the above mentioned TransGurl. I have a Clean Police Check and a Statutory Declaration saying that itโ€™s all lies.

This Trans Gurl, was the first in 35 years thought I could trust, but for reasons unknown to me, she blocked me, although feel she was lied to about me.

She is why I no longer use my real name publicly on my novels.

Those in the LGBTIQA+ community donโ€™t just wake up one day and say hey, Iโ€™m Gay/Lesbian/bisexual/Transgender etc., no it takes a long time to admit to ourselves that we are โ€œDifferent,โ€ and it could take many years before we admit it to others.

 Well thatโ€™s what it was for me, others could be different.

Every time I have been physically intimate with someone, I have been forced to because others have made the following assumptions: โ€œHe is Too Stressed and Needs To Get Laid.โ€

Chapter 2: Educational Part.

Most people judge and make assumptions about Transgenders, based on what is or is not between our legs. Gender is about how we feel and present, not all transition to be more Physically Intimate, I  identify as Asexual. Asexuals have no interest in anyone physically. I donโ€™t like touching others as it makes my skin crawl, again this is because of what happened when I was a minor.

We just want to get on with our lives and become worthy tax paying members of society.

This is my second time living as a female, as the first time around, I copped a lot of negativity. During that time, I didnโ€™t feel right and everyone told me that I made an ugly female, this was my supposed friends and work colleagues.

Another misconception  because a Transgender may have transitioned from Male to Female or vice versa, this does not mean that we want to date someone of our assigned birth gender. I was assigned male at birth, but when I date, only date females, because Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation are 2 very separate things .

For most Employers, Transgenders can benefit their business as we have lived experience as a repressed community and can assist businesses to be more inclusive, and sometimes the business may be able to tap into the LGBTIQA+ community as most prefer to support LGBTIQA+ friendly businesses, I do quite often.

When a person finally accepts themself as Transgender, the hard part begins.

First step, seeing their GP, who will refer them to a Psychiatrist or Endocrinologist who may request blood tests to determine the correct hormone dosage.

Once on hormones, set about making small changes in their life. For me, November 2013, when I decided to seek medical help, I made the decision to discard my male underwear and start wearing female briefs only.

I was advised about a great Psychiatrist in Lake Macquarie NSW, Australia, and obtained a referral for him. My first appointment, he said he would give me his approval.

Next, deciding a Transition date and if employed advising the Employer about the name and gender change.

Once the date is set, then the official documentation is started. First is the application to change their name, then once approved and money paid, the person formally changes their details with every organisation they are associated with.

Most Australian Federal Govt Depts will allow the name change, but until surgery, their birth gender is still officially recorded, we can with documentation, change the gender marker on our Passports now.

Not every Transgender wants complete surgery but is discriminated against because of their assigned birth gender.

Those seeking surgery, research Surgeons. Had I done that in 2014, I would been complete by now. The surgeon here in Melbourne that Iโ€™m hoping, costs $25,000, which includes the Anaesthetists fee. Part of the cost may be rebatable from Medicare.

This surgeon does not operate on uninsured patients; therefore, the patient must seek Top Hospital Health cover, that is now $175, well for me anyway.

Once the 1st Psychiatrist provides their approval, the person then seeks a 2nd Psychiatrist who then listens and if they feel the person is suitable, will eventually give their approval. This approval is not permitted to be given until around 3 months prior to surgery date.

The patient is also required to obtain laser hair removal on the affected genital areas, this is to prevent hairs growing inside the Neo Vagina. These treatments vary in cost and are not rebatable from Medicare.

The payments for the Surgeon are made at least 14 days prior to surgery, and also the excess amount for the hospital is paid by then, usually $500.

Some people travel from interstate and book in to suitable accommodation, sometimes partners and/or friends travel too, as they will be needed after discharge.

Surgery Day: Arrive at 6am to complete final paperwork, then escorted to your room and change. Once Pre-med has been given, patient goes to surgery.

After surgery, itโ€™s 3 days bed rest, then twice daily salt baths, and shown how to dilate, this must be done several times per day and is for the rest of the patientโ€™s life, this is to prevent the Neo Vagina from closing up.

Discharge:  as early as 6 days after surgery, with the patient remaining in the city of surgery for another 4-6 weeks, this is in case of any complications, but also to see the surgeon. Interstate residents would be looking at another $3-5,000+.

1 of my goals, funded from eBook sales, is to establish a recovery centre to reduce these costs.

Time off work is around 2-4 months, but it depends on the patient and their employment.

If anyone reading this, ends up with a child who is Gay, Lesbian, Transgender or any other form, please listen to them and their needs, because I wish that I could have been brave enough to tell my father. Honestly, Iโ€™m surprised that Iโ€™ve lasted this long.

Children know at a young age what gender they are, but most people assume, instead of asking questions.

I fully support children transitioning, as the younger a person starts, the less likely hood of developing characteristics of their assigned birth gender. Just look at Georgie Stone, (Mackenzie on Neighbours.)

I would also advise they have some sperm or eggs frozen, just in case for the future.

These are my favourite sayings: โ€œNever Assume Anything, Always Ask Questions To Clarify, Because Ignorance Is No Excuse For Stupidity.โ€  โ€œPeople Lie To Manipulate Others For Their Own Selfish, Jealous Ulterior Motives.โ€ โ€œEducation Is Key To Knowledge.โ€ โ€œEveryone Can Learn From Others, If They Are Willing To Listen.โ€

As a Transgender female, it appals me when so many people use derogatory names. Please have respect.

Thank You for allowing me to tell my story, I hope I have educated you all.

๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜กNarrow Minded Humans

Have No

Foreward

Visions

They only find negativity in almost everything,

Because

Most are too afraid to

Leave

Their

Comfort Zones.

Comfort Zones are Lazy and Death Zones.

In my opinion, Narrow Minded Humans are

Jealous,

Manipulative,

Controlling,

Cowards.

They also see more problems for problems,

Whereas

Open Minded Humans

Will find

Solutions

To Most

Problems.

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Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesnโ€™t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, thatโ€™s what makes us all Humans.

FARE EVASION IS A CRIME.

Iโ€™m an ex-Bus Driver and despised anybody who evaded their fare.

I was assaulted many times.

I truly believe everyone who Fare Evades, should be punished, because even though, itโ€™s a minor offence, can lead to major offences.

Minimum Infringement should be $2,500.

From my observations over the years. When there are service reviews, numbers are looked at for each service.

There will be observers, hidden, along the route, to count the passengers.

If its found there are very few paying passengers, then the service may be cancelled, meaning:

Loss of at least 1 Job.

Another reason, Inspectors may board and check tickets, resulting in many infringements.

I’ve been abused by others for validating my card.

Please think about the above, next time you think about Fare Evading.

With the current Pandemic going on, by validating your card, you can check where you have travelled, if a case travels on Public Transport.

Here in Victoria, Australia, there are QR codes to check in on vehicles, via Service Victoria app.

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Gender Surgery Explained.

Many people still assume the Penis (Birth Defect BD) is cut off, it used to be.

However, today, Medical Technology has advanced.

I won’t go into the gorry details.

The Penis is inverted to create a Neo-Vagina.

Immediately after surgery, its bed rest for several days, with packing and dressings changed regulary.

After bed rest over, twice daily salt baths begin.

This assists healing.

The gurl is required to dilate several times per day. This is to stop the cavity from closing.

Recovery is 3-6 months, dependant on the patient.

Cost of the surgery is fully paid in advance by the patient.

My chosen Surgeon, here in Melbourne, will not operate on uninsured patients.

Health Insurance Cover per month is $180. With a waiting period of 12 months continued coverage.

The patient needs around $25,000 just for the Surgery, this does not include the incidentals required pre and post surgery.

If a patient needs to travel to Melbourne, they need costs for accommodation.

Add another $10,000-$15,000.

Costs vary depending on a patients needs.

Part of the cost may be claimable, but not always.

Contrary to belief: A post-op Trans Gurl is infertile, and sometimes unable to self lubricate.

Not every gurl has surgery to be more intimate with others.

Many never indulge in intimacy, they want their outsides to match their insides and having surgery allows them to be legally recognised as their preferred gender.

Many businesses will not observe a Trans Gurl as a female if she still has her BD, which is unfair, but to many people refuse to accept, Transgenders exist.

When MCC is established, $1 AUD, per candle bought,will be set aside towards partly funding, as a loan to gurls struggling, for their surgeries.

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Update: All Subscribers will receive 2 candles during their Birth Month, and thst months subscription will be waived.

1st 10,000 who subscribe.

Please be advised:

The monthly cost is now $30 AUD per subscription.

$5 will be split 5 ways and donated to various charities.

$1 each to:

Cancer Research:

Transgender Support:

Mental Health:

Children’s Ambulance Service:

Animal Sanctuary.

Each will vary each month.

We hope to assist unknown or little known charities.

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