Cancer Sux.

Wilma Fay Jensen 18/09/1939- 30/07/1991.

As I write this, I’m crying thinking about my mum.

30 years ago today, I lost her to Bowel Cancer.

Because of my sister, I feel mum died earlier than she should have.

During mums time in hospital, in Sydney, I was unable to visit.

As my parents owned a Mixed Business in North West NSW.

When mum was released, she spent much of her time in our upstairs flat.

It was hard watching her go through this as she had previously been an active person.

I had no one to support me.

As I was male, was not allowed to show my emotions, and bottled them up.

My last conversation with mum was hours before she died.

Driving back, I had to stop and let loose my emotions, because I knew it was the last time I would see her alive.

Dad never knew, I’m aware.

My grandmother paid for the funeral, as such, mum is buried near her father.

Please, if anyone has any symptons, get checked out immediately.

Life is too short to allow these awful diseases to take control of us.

Getting checked out early and having regular tests, hopefully can prolong your life.

Pic is last taken with all 3 of us, at my 21st, in 1986, yes that is my ugle mug in the middle


๐Ÿš‹๐Ÿฆ˜๐Ÿจ๐Ÿฆ„๐Ÿš™๐Ÿ›๐Ÿฅ‚โ˜•โ˜•โ˜•๐Ÿบโค VICTORIA AUSTRALIA

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Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesnโ€™t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, thatโ€™s what makes us all Humans.

Do You Plan to visit this amazing State, I call:

“The Progressive State?”

Victoria, like many other states and countries has done it tough, but we hold the record for the longest time in lockdown and because of that, we are now, almost free to do anything legal.

My reason for posting this is to give exposure to this state and make this offer to you all:

Buy a share in my Affordable Cabin Park for $100 AUD, and you will be entitled to 14 nights FREE Accommodation, valid for 10 years from the day the park opens.

This means you will not pay any surcharges, or need to search multiple websites to get the best deal.

By Pre-Paying in advance, it will allow me to raise the construction funds and build the park.

There will be Romantic Studios, along with

1, 2, 3, & 4 bedroom cabins.

Pet and LGBTIQA+ Friendly too.

Please check out the link below, which is about my amazing Adopted Home State


Melbourne was once described as:

“The A……. End Of The World.”

As a resident for almost 7 years, these are some of the events which occur annually:

Australian Open Tennis at Melbourne Park.

F1 Grand Prix at Albert Park

Moomba Festival, Each March

Pride Festival January/February.

Boxing Day Cricket Test, MCG Starts December 26th annually.

AFL (Australian Football League) sometimes known as “Aerial Ping Pong.”



Melbourne Show, Showgrounds, Ascot Vale September/October

Spring Racing Carnival, includes Melbourne Cup 1st Tuesday each November, Flemington Racecourse.

White Night, Melbourne, Ballarat & Bendigo.

We have amazing Shopping:

“Chadstone, The Fashion Capital” is my personal best shopping centre, an easy 30 minute drive along Monash Freeway and Warrigal Road, or many buses and lots of parking.

Great Markets: Queen Vic, easy access from 19, 57, 58 & 59 Trams.

South Melbourne Market, 96 Tram.

St. Kilda Sunday Markets, 3a, 12, 16, 96 Trams.

Most Metro Trains operate to a 20 minute frequency off peak.

Vline 20-60+ minutes, depending on the line and destination.

Free Tram Zone for all Trams in the CBD.

Please see below map


Great Coffee, The Best In Australia. I’m originally from Sydney.

Biggest Tram Network in the World.

I suggest, if you are going to visit and you are a 1st time visitor, please engage a local to show you around as we know this city well.

We also have many Magnificent Gardens, Ferry Rides along the Yarra to Williamstown.

Maximum MYKI (Our Travel Card) daily cost in Zones 1 & 2, $10, however, this may increase from early January each year. This cost is based on the time of writing this, Tuesday November 30th, 2021.

Weekend Cap is lower, and if you only travel in Zone 2, cost is reduced again.


If you are interested in anything contained in this blog, please get in touch and I will help best I can

๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ‡๐Ÿฆœ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ•๐Ÿš˜๐ŸŒžโ›ฑ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆTrue Friends.

Will always be there for each other.

Will never say anything bad publicly.

Here’s a real story:

March 2015, A friend was overseas. They posted about their 2 favourite singers on their social media page.

Their “Best Friends” made negative comments. I supported this friend, because they are able to decide for themselves.

These “Best Friends” were not true friends, because had they had been, would have saved their negativity and told their friend privately.

I feel, because I was supportive, these “BF’s” conspired to get rid of me, which happened less than 2 weeks later.

Someone told my “Friend” a vicious lie, they believed it, but in 2018, they spread that lie online.

We never met or spoke, and I have

Written, Legal, Official Proof, that it was a lie.

I based “Chris” on the above friend, who was also the inspiration behind my 1st novel


True Friends, Will Always:

Be Supportive of decisions our TF’s make, no matter how they feel personally.

Will be there during sad times.

Will advise without making it like a guilt trip.

Accept other people in each others lives.

Advise best they can.

Listen to each other too, no matter how boring or mundane the subject.

They are there when we are sick or injured.

I’ve had 2 Great True Friends since 1987. I won’t reveal their names, just initials: AG & KS.

Both have helped keep me grounded and in 2018, AG stopped me from committing suicide.

Zetland, NSW, Australia

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Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesnโ€™t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, thatโ€™s what makes us all Humans.

I stayed at this place in 2013 for around 14 nights.

I had a 1 bedroom which was amazing.

Not sure what floor I was on, but was high up.

The kitchen was great, had a microwave, fridge, stove, utensils.

Bathroom: Bath, Shower, Washing Machine & Dryer.

Lounge area had a tv, dvd player, chairs and table.

Secure Car Parking. I think then, was extra $25 per day.

As it’s 8 years ago, unsure about any deliveries.

Easy drive from Sydney Airport, almost to anywhere.

If I remember correctly, it’s only a short walk to public transport.

This is approx distance from suites to Green Square Station.
Looking towards Sydney CBD.
Southern Cross Drive, looking towards Mascot Airport.
Another Sunrise Pic.
Blue Lines are closest Bus Routes.

Below are the bus routes close by, but I encourage you to do research prior to deciding.

I highly recommend staying here, once restrictions ease and the suites have reopened.

Bullying Sux.

I’ve been bullied all my life, even by relatives.

I’ve realised I’ve done the same thing to others.

Did You Know? When people exclude others, it is a form of Bullying.

I was bullied throughout my childhood, by family members and school associates.

I accepted it because in those days, there was no system in place for anybody, if there was, I was not told.

I was assigned male at birth and felt different from a young age, things got worse when my blister was hatched, as on my father’s side of his family, each of his siblings bore male children.

I was the only one to have a blister and I was blamed for that, why I don’t know, but was.

Most people saw me as an easy target, still do.

I was also struggling with my sexual identity, despite having a girlfriend, felt I was a gurl, but gurls don’t date girls, they date boys, and knew I was not interested in boys.

I was accused of being a faggot, homo, etc. in school, despite no evidence, my school associates and some teachers even accused me too.

I was assaulted by teachers too. I remember being hit in the head by a cricket ball.

My own father was a bully, although again, I did not realise, as he controlled everything we did.

I was scared of him so much and went along with what he wanted. I have written a novel about him, which has allowed my subconscious to finally reveal a lot of forgotten memories, which have allowed me to release my emotions.

Speaking of emotions, as I was assigned male at birth, his perspective was all males do not show emotions as it is a sign of weakness.

I kept my emotions inside me, even when my favourite cousin was killed in a car accident, I did not cry, because it would be seen as weakness.

When dad’s father died, he did not cry, nor did any other male in the family.

Given what I now know in life, I know I was bullied, but then it was just the way things were.

I’m a very shy person who is careful with what I tell people, because even in later life, I have been bullied by others, which is wrong.

I’ve been made to feel like I’m not worthy to be stealing Oxygen, and it hurts.

Everyone is a Human being, and as such, we are all equal, and as we are now seeing with this crisis, those normally shunned by the general population, are now being praised as heroes.

I’m writing my novels to not only reveal very personal information about myself. N.B., In each, there are certain things I say from my perspective growing up.

My goal is to raise enough funds to buy some land and build some houses for those suffering Domestic Violence and also the LGBTIQA+ community who have trouble with Safe, Secure, Stable Accommodation.

Since becoming a LinkedIn member, I have started trusting again and meeting people, both in person pre COVID restrictions and via online meetings.

I’m grateful to everyone who has accepted me, for me, and allowed me to tell my story too. Thank You.

For those reading this who are suffering from bullying, please reach out to me, because U R Not Alone. Cheers, and Thanks All.



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I’m excited to announce, I have finally been able to procure limited supplies to start making candles again.

The photos below are of some I recently made or part made.

Anyone attending the meeting Friday December 3rd, 2021 at Chadstone, Victoria, Australia, will get the chance to see and smell a selection of these.

They do smell amazing, especially the Fresh Coffee and Musk Sticks (Pink Colour)

Melissa Jensen Update.

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Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesnโ€™t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, thatโ€™s what makes us all Humans.

G’day you amazing Winners.

I wish to advise, I have recently passed a Police Check here in Australia, and also my

Working With Children Check.

I have obtained these to hopefully put people’s minds at ease about my Genuiness and Authenticity, regarding Funds to establish my

Affordable, Accommodation Cabin Park, which will also include my Production Studio to make candles.

My Goal in life, with help from everyday Winners, is to house winners escaping Toxic Environments:

Employ Them in 1 of the businesses planned:

Candle Making:

Park Reception:

Take Away (Out) Food and Convenience Store:

Hairdressing/Beauty Salon:

Cabin Cleaning (Vacated Only):

Mechanical Workshop:

Herb and Vegetable Garden.

Transport Officers.

I’m sure I will find more as time progresses.

I want everyone to know, I’m an Open, Honest, Genuine, Authentic Winner who only wants to help everyday Winners succeed, because we all can, if we just open our brainwashed minds, eyes, and ears.

For Transparency, My ABN is:

61902818410, which can be checked on:


As always, I offer a free 30 Minute Zoom Call, where you can ask questions.

Please email me at:


Chuckios You Winners,

Wishing you all a Super Fantasmagorically Productive Day.

Work Smarter, Not Harder

Smart People are Wealthy, because

They Invest more of their income.

Poor people stay poor, because

They spend all of their income

And Exist

Beyond their means.

Many poor people have a

Take, Take, Take, Others Owe Them.

Everyone has the capabilities of



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Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesnโ€™t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, thatโ€™s what makes us all Humans.

For many years, I have accepted people on their word, who then let me down and say, they didn’t say what I repeat back to them.

In 2019, I attended a weekly session which helped me realise many things.

1 of those things was, having Written Agreements.

I’m talking WSA’s for almost everything:



Share Households:

Intimate Relationships:

Business Dealings

And everything in between.

You might think, or assume, I don’t trust anybody,

Guess What?

You are correct.

I don’t trust someone’s word anymore, therefore always demand Written, Signed Agreements, which must be Legal too.

Even when legal, I’m still cautious, because many people will try to wriggle their way out


I’m cunning,

I always have at least 20 copies to sign by each party concerned, then those copies are equally divided amongst each, so each copy becomes an original.

I have 1 laminated, another scanned into a computer and emailed to several trusted people, a couple are given to my Legal team.

Of course, the above depends on how many parties are involved and how many copies are divided up.

Another thing, if I’m going to meet someone for the first time, I will write a written agreement, which I will sign in front of the person/people in attendance.




ยฉ Melโ€™s Customised Candles Melbourne, Australia, 2021

Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesnโ€™t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, thatโ€™s what makes us all Humans.

I’ve been lied to many times, mainly by my father.

Many Families will try to control and manipulate their relatives all their lives.

Too many are way


Because they are








Families will put doubts into their Relatives heads, and that is:

Mind Games.

My father did until he died, I was 46.

Honestly, once someone reaches 16, they should be treated like a

Young Adult,


Able to make their own decisions, whether good or bad.

An episode of McLeods Dauggters is a perfect example of “Parents” and “Adults” interfering.


I get so annoyed when parents guilt their offspring into doing what they want.

Parents can be toxic people at times.

The below photo is an episode of Blue Heelers, which had 2 interesting storylines.

I grew up in times, where men ruled.

1970, when I knew I was a G U R L, I didn’t feel comfortable or even safe enough to admit to my parents.

Our parents should allow us to explore and see what is out there, without being in fear of being rejected.

The only time, I believe Parents can and should interfere in their Offspring’s lives, is when any criminal activity is involved.

Offspring should be able to choose their friends, but:

Parents should insist on meeting them, either via video chat,



As someone who has been hurt verbally in the past, I always provide written agreements, & copies of my photo identification too.

To any parents reading this:

Please listen to your offspring and allow them to explore their lives, & if they show interest in something


Please accept that.

Children know at a young age, who they are, this includes their gender identity and sexual orientation too.

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