Cancer Sux.

Wilma Fay Jensen 18/09/1939- 30/07/1991.

As I write this, I’m crying thinking about my mum.

30 years ago today, I lost her to Bowel Cancer.

Because of my sister, I feel mum died earlier than she should have.

During mums time in hospital, in Sydney, I was unable to visit.

As my parents owned a Mixed Business in North West NSW.

When mum was released, she spent much of her time in our upstairs flat.

It was hard watching her go through this as she had previously been an active person.

I had no one to support me.

As I was male, was not allowed to show my emotions, and bottled them up.

My last conversation with mum was hours before she died.

Driving back, I had to stop and let loose my emotions, because I knew it was the last time I would see her alive.

Dad never knew, I’m aware.

My grandmother paid for the funeral, as such, mum is buried near her father.

Please, if anyone has any symptons, get checked out immediately.

Life is too short to allow these awful diseases to take control of us.

Getting checked out early and having regular tests, hopefully can prolong your life.

Pic is last taken with all 3 of us, at my 21st, in 1986, yes that is my ugle mug in the middle



I’m sick to death of how many selfish, inconsiderate people there are alive today.

I have a 60 minute walk home. There is no Public Transport, despite my pleas for buses, but still nothing.

I’m feeling so sick right now, but no one wants to help me.

I just hope nothing happens during my walk home, especially as I must walk mere mm’s from the roadway, where cars, trucks and buses fly past at 80kmh +.

I even had several motorists try running me down this morning.

My HR skyrocketed as did my Anxiety.


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Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesnโ€™t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, thatโ€™s what makes us all Humans.

Did You Know?

Everyday Winners can become ABN holders.


My advice is start as an Individual/Sole Trader.

Many people donโ€™t realise the benefits of having an ABN.

Please check out the below link as it may explain more and the latest information.


Anyway, letโ€™s talk about Start Up Businesses.

Many people have great ideas, however, unable to obtain loans, due to no business history, or past financial issues.

Everyday Winners can be supportive of a StartUp/s as many StartUps will appreciate the help, but also allow the Investors to help shape and guide the business.

Please remember, the initial buy in cost, may be Tax Deductible if You have an ABN.

I believe every single winner worldwide can become financially free if you all looked for opportunities.

Believe me, there are many out there.

However, I would conduct research first, check the businesses ABN Status, the Founder and ensure the Founder/CEO is willing to chat with potential Investors or whatever name the business wishes to call them: Shareholders, Business Partners, Investors.

As usual, for Honesty and Transparency Reasons, my ABN details are:


Melissa Alison Wilma Jensen

Individual/Sole Trader.


You can check the current status at the link above.

For added safety and security, I do not accept Cash, ALL Payments must be made to our Bank Account (CBA).

I also provide a Written, Signed Agreement to each Shareholder/Business Partner.

๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’Assumptions Suck.

Why do people make assumptions and/or judge others without asking questions to clarify.

I’ve been the victim of narrow-minded, 1-sided interferring “conversations.”

I was subjected to vicious verbal assault by a couple several months ago, which hurt.

Neither of these “people” knew me, or my story, yet they made assumptions about me.

Quietly, between You & Me, I felt Suicidal again and thought of barbecuing myself at Sunshine station.

My advice to everyone:

I’ve also had people question my motives with many things, again, assumptions.

Not everyone has ulterior motives when they help, or try to help, others.

I’m a very private person, because of what happened when I was a child.

When I trust someone, that’s rare.

Honestly, I don’t mind when people ask me questions, especially when they are genuine questions.

Because I’ve been used and abused in the past

I now provide and demand, Written, Legal, Signed, Agreements.

No agreement,

No Association.

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Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesnโ€™t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, thatโ€™s what makes us all Humans.

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As we are still in Start Up Mode, all the funds raised will be used to buy all the required Equipment, Materials, Permits, Licences, Website Upgrade, etc.

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We envisage our first payout will be November 2023.

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This is a Sample Shareholder Certificate.

Please do not think this is a


This Is a Long Term Commitment, around 5 years +.

BP’s/Shareholders will receive a Log In to access exclusive content, including Melissa’s future completed novels,


Melissa offers a Free 30 minute Zoom with all potential Shareholders/BP’s.

Please email us if you have any questions or wish to buy:


We Thank You For Taking The Time To Read This.

Wishing You Amazing Winners A Super Fantabulous Week.


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Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesnโ€™t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, thatโ€™s what makes us all Humans.

In the past couple of years, most Offices have resorted to allowing their staff to work from home.

What I write below is from my perspective and experiences.

Below are some of my personal reasons:

1 No Walking to and from the station, having to put up with rude, arrogant, selfish, impatient motorists.

N.B. Not a day goes by when I’m not abused by motorists.

2. No Travelling on Public Transport with Selfish Twerps.

N.B. 2 Many times as I have gone to board a train, tram or bus, have been pushed away by impatient idiots. Funny, the service is not going to leave without them.

3. When sick, can still perform your duties from Home, whether it takes 8-14 hours, as long as the work gets done, who cares how long it takes.

N.B. 3 As a Contract House Cleaner, there have been times, Iโ€™ve had to cancel customers, due to ill health.

4. Able to perform Home duties in between work duties.

5. Possibly no anxiety issues.

N.B. 3. I get nervous when I go out due to the severe negative treatment I received growing up. I was never able to express myself, usually told to go away and leave the adults alone, or seen as a weakling and that vulnerability has allowed others to manipulate me, which still happens today.

6. Able to accept deliveries whilst home.

7. If a person has children, means they are home when the children arrive home.

N.B. 4. Due to a vicious assault when I was 16, have not been lucky enough to become a Parent, however, Safety First Always.

8. My Personal Favourite: Able to work without any distractions i.e. Others Talking, or Music Playing etc.

Big Business needs to stop treating their employees like children and allowing them to work to their pace and abilities.

Once MCC is established, I will allow my Admin/Light Duties Team Members the chance to work from home.

Iโ€™m hoping we rarely have anybody on Light Duties, but I need to be prepared in case accident/s occur.

I believe when someone is allowed to do their work alone, they will be much more productive.

Hereโ€™s an Example:

When I used to clean Trains, sometimes, I would be working with others, unfortunately most were selfish and/or lazy. I had to clean to their speed, and these cleans were bad.

However, when I was allocated a 4 car set to clean, I would shine, as I could work to my pace and routine. Most of the time, I was very happy with the result.

The final few months of working there, I was bullied by most of the others. They were males and I had transitioned to female.

This is a reason why I accepted Redundancy was for my Mental Health.

This allowed me to finally follow my dream:

Move to Melbourne, Australia.

Iโ€™m sure there are many more reasons to WFH, and everyone has their reasons depending on their circumstances.

I would love to know everyoneโ€™s opinions, comments welcome.

Much Thanks.

Ageism & ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ Transphobia Sux

I have suffered, correction, am suffering, from both of these.

Too many assume, either based on a persons age, or Gender Identity.

In My Opinion, It’s a Toxic Traight which must be stopped.

Every Human, deserves to be accepted:




We are all Equal, and as long as we are breathing and not doing anything illegal, then we should be able to







To any young person reading this, those under 30, who seem to feel anyone 30+ is


Well, I hope when you, if you do, reach 30+ Karma gets you.

Please remember, People My Age and Older, Fought for us all to have our freedoms.

My Advice, Sit Down and chat with an older person, because we can all learn from each other.

I have learnt much from younger winners.

My BIFF is 24, lives in the US and teaches me a lot quite a lot.

I would be lost with out her.

To My BIFF: Thank You Gorgeous.

I hope I have educated you all, and you start accepting everyone at Face Value.

Growing up, I was taught to give people a


I accept most people for who they are, but once they let me down, are:




I only want Supportive, Accepting Winners in my life.

In 2021, I had to block s long term “Friend?????” Because they were being competitive about COVID numbers.

She lived in NSW, I’m in regional Victoria.


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Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesnโ€™t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, thatโ€™s what makes us all Humans.

I was told about this website many years ago and have enjoyed the benefits.

I think of them as an eWholesaler who acts as an eDistributor for amazing Indie Authors, like me.

I only have mine on Smashwords as I don’t want to rip off my customers.

eBooks or electronic Books are fantastic.

They save trees, and your back, as you can carry as many titles on a device as storage will hold.

eBooks are usually cheaper and on Smashwords, the Author determines the price, from $0.99 USD.

Smashwords will also have sales throughout the year.

Authors sometimes place their titles on sale.

A great incentive too:

Smashwords have an affiliate program, where you receive a portion of the authors royalties, when someone buys a copy, using your unique link.

All you need is a Pay Pal account, Smashwords only need your linked email to pay your royalties, usually end of following month.

i.e. royalties accrued in January, will be paid late February.

This is my Affiliate Link


In my opinion, if Smashwords did not exist, many Indie Authors may never have their works published.

Anybody can write a book and self publish.

I offer a Formatting service. $25 for first Title, $50 AUD subsequent, with a turnaround of under 7 days, this is depending on how busy I am. Exact time will be quoted at time of request.

There are several formats for customers. Below is the link to my Biography and the formats too.

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ยฉ Melโ€™s Customised Candles Melbourne, Australia, 2022

Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesnโ€™t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, thatโ€™s what makes us all Humans.

What I say below applies to Australia, however, may apply in your Country. Please conduct your own research before doing anything.


Our Taxes pay for the following:

Centrelink Payments:

Bulk Billing when needing Medical Care, or reduced out of pocket expenses.

PBS for many Cheaper Prescriptions.

Subsidised Housing:


Emergency Services,




Special Events: New Years Eve Fireworks, Moomba Parade, White Night, AFL Grand Final Parade, Pride Festival, Mardi Gras.

Other Events as required.

The way I look at things is this way:

Paying your fair share of Income Tax and making Authorised Charity Donations annually, may reduce your Tax Bill,





I look at my annual refund like a half Christmas Present.

What about you?

Here is another way of reducing your Tax Bill, Buy into a Business, as these expenses may reduce your Tax Bill.

It’s easy to apply for an ABN.

I suggest registering as an Individual/Sole Trader.

You can check mine:

ABN: 61902818410

Name: Melissa Alison Wilma Jensen.

Status: Individual/Sole Trader.

Not Registered For GST.




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Disclaimer: As usual, what is written below is my own personal opinion, and may vary from yours. It doesnโ€™t mean to say that either is correct or incorrect, thatโ€™s what makes us all Humans.


Many people feel things will go how they want, and are immune to things going wrong.

In the 1970โ€™s, I had a cousin, who was 5 months younger than me.

He would travel in the front passenger seat of his mumโ€™s car, however, would he refused to wear his seat belt. He was 9.

We had a family event, and as they were leaving, again he was warned, but he refused.


Although it has been compulsory to wear seatbelts in New South Wales since 1971, each year on average there are about 30 drivers and passengers killed and 220 injured who were not wearing available seatbelts. Many of these deaths and injuries could have been prevented if seatbelts had been used.4 Oct 2019

The above was sourced from the Internet.


The above link is proof.

One evening, my cousins mum decided to go for a drive with the 2 boys, the other was 2 years old and followed his older brothers bad example.

My Aunt made a turn, but misjudged the corner and slammed head on into a telegraph pole (Lamp Post).

My cousinโ€™s body went through the windscreen (Windshield), hit the pole and ended up back in his seat.

When emergency services arrived, they thought he was alive as his eyes were wide open, unfortunately, he was deceased. His neck had been broken.

His younger brother was not found until they were removing the damaged vehicle.

He spent many months in hospital.

Had my cousin been wearing his seat belt, he may have survived, and his brother may not have been in hospital for so long either.

In the past few years, there have been way too many people, being complacent with COVID, by refusing to wear their Face Mask (Correctly At Times), Checking In Everywhere, Regular Washing and Sanitising Their Hands too.

I always wear  a Face Mask from the moment I leave my house, until the moment I return, except when eating or drinking, or if a customer allows me to take the mask off, or Iโ€™m alone in their home.

I check in at the station or on the bus, depending on where Iโ€™m going.

Wash and Sanitise my hands regularly.

Iโ€™m also double vaxxed, received my booster Friday January 21st, 2022.

As someone who grew up with a Father, who worked Security, Iโ€™m very safety and security conscious.

Way too many people donโ€™t think when it comes to Security around their homes and motor vehicles

Another, more scary Complacency, is the number of young people who have total disregard for their safety, by meeting up with people they meet online.

I advise everyone to never meet someone for first few times, in private or alone.

Always insist on Public Locations, with Support Persons about and CCTV prevalent too.

Genuine people will agree to this and will provide photo identification upon meeting the first time.

Please remember this:



I also suggest conducting research into anybody you are chatting to online, and before meeting, have video calls.

My reason for writing this blog is to hopefully help people to stop and think, because I donโ€™t want to see anyone hurt in any way, shape or form:






Iโ€™m 56 and in the 18 months I have resided here, have been offered lifts many times, by complete strangers.

I decline, because of Safety.

However, there is a man who I have accepted lifts from, because I know where he lives.

Many people donโ€™t know this; however, I was almost abducted Christmas Day 2021. Thankfully I escaped, but was so shaken, I forgot to remember the faces of the vehicle and possible assailants. I still have nightmares about this.

My theory was people who I knew several years ago, saw me and tried as a joke. As I have no proof of this, am unable to go further.

I know the last part is not really a part of the title, but I included it, because it still haunts me, but shows I was not complacent, instead kept my wits about myself.


I am 1 of the people who originally thought this virus did not exist.

However, now believe it does.

Several people I know, have tested positive and as such, had to self isolate.

Yesterday, Friday January 21st, 2022, I received my booster shot.

The side affects so far, are:

Feeling Faint, Diarrhea, Vomiting, Pain At Injection Site.

Things have been made worse by a reinjured eye, which is watery and causing focus issues.

A normally 60 minute walk home, took almost 2 hours, especially as part is very dangerous.

I highly recommend getting all doses.

Also: When you leave home, whether in a vehicle, walking, Public Transport, Please wear a Face Mask. Wash & Sanitise your hands regularly.

This is the best defence against this virus.

Also, please abide by social distancing too.

The photo is the numbers in Victoria until late last night.

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